Showing posts with label Customs. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Customs. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 20, 2015

Verdant Hills & Rushing Springs




There are countless towns and villages in Turkey with a green hilltop named “Hıdır Tepesi,” which can be translated as the “Hill of Hıdır;” in reality it means “The Verdant Hill.” 

Hıdır, or Hıdr, comes from the Arabic word for green. There is virtually no difference between Hıdır, Hidr and Hizir in Arabic, for d and z are at times interchangeable. “Hıdırlık” is a short term for greenery or any open grassy land fit to serve as a playground for children or place to picnic. It also has a connection to Hızır (or Hıdr/Hıdır), a saintly person who appears unexpectedly for people in need, hence the term “Hızır gibi yetişmek (To come to somebody’s rescue like Hızır). Hızır is an immortal man who has drunk the water of life from the spring of immortality. Hıdrellez, the ultimate spring festival celebrated on the night of May 5 and the day of May 6th, also gets its name from the same word, or rather, the same saintly figure.

Hızır is a figure of great controversy. All agree the he is invisible and let’s himself be seen only when necessary. He appears and disappears at an instant. He is, in a way, like a spring that suddenly comes after a never-ending winter, just like this year. He is the one who is identified with greenness and water springs.
 There are some who associate the name also with Hydra, related to water. He is also believed to be the same person as St. George, another saintly green man in Christian culture. St. George is from the heart of Anatolia, from Cappadocia, with a Middle Eastern ancestry. In a way, it is normal to consider Hıdır St. George; usually, holy figures are swapped in between religions in this geography all the time.

As said, his sudden appearance, often in disguise of a beggar, or an elderly passerby, gives



a certain suspicion to his real personality. He will be there to guide you to the path to truth whenever necessary. If you treat him rightly, you’ll be rewarded with abundance and plenty. He’ll make your wishes come true, provided that you welcome him with a warm reception. Maybe it is the strong belief in his existence that lies beneath the unmatched Anatolian hospitality. It may be that all the peoples of this land dread the thought of missing an opportunity to meet the mighty and generous green man. That would be equal the skipping the chance of a lifetime, as he is believed to appear only once in a lifetime of a person.

But where is he and who is he? You’ll never know, at least not at the moment you see him. You can only realize that you’ve just encountered his existence after he disappears to an unknown destiny, never to come back again. He is omnipresent, yet invisible. Some say he only touches your faith when you’re truly and desperately in need. There is one condition: you have to be a completely honest and pure person. The integrity of oneself is the key to receive his blessing.

In some depictions, Hıdır wears a green coat or cloak. It is the same for hilltops named after him. These hilltops are probably at their greenest at Hıdrellez, the time to go out and celebrate nature. Hıdrellez also marks the only day when Hıdır meets Elias, his long lost pal. Elias (Elijah), or Ilyas in Turkish, is another saintly figure who represents the sea. Hıdır, the greenery (also meaning for the earth) meets the water, let it be the sea, lake, or rivers, on this particular day. The day of Hıdrellez gets its name from Hıdır and Elias; it is the day for the reunion of opposites, the marriage of the land and the sea.

As it signifies the time to wait for the verdant one, Hıdrellez is mostly about having fun. Feasting alfresco is its core, most often accompanied with music and dancing. Celebrating through the night of May 5th is almost obligatory, as one wishes lay underneath a rose tree or set sail on the waterfront at the crack of dawn. The night is spent dancing and jumping over bonfires in a camping spirit. Young girls wait for the love of their life to appear like Hızır, write down wishes for a happy future and secretly bury them under rose trees. If there is a waterside nearby, or rushing springs, all wishful youth will end the night there, watching the rise of the sun.

One never knows one’s own destiny; he (Hıdır or Hızır or the love of one’s life) might come at the most unexpected moment… Hıdrellez is mostly about mankind’s naivety of good will, so let’s not lose hope on nature and start celebrating spring (finally) with the greenest of spring tastes.

Credit: Aylin Öney Tan  

Sunday, October 19, 2014

Henna: Its History and Cultural Significance


Above video of mine will show you different designs of henna decorated handsíncluding mine. It is fun, not ritual for me.


Over time, the use of Henna expanded beyond its practical purpose and became deeply rooted in the cultural and social fabric of these regions. It became a symbol of celebration, beauty, and identity, with its intricate designs adorning the hands and feet of both men and women during special occasions and festivals. The art of applying Henna involves creating intricate patterns and designs on the skin using a paste made from the dried leaves of the Henna plant. These designs can range from simple geometric shapes to elaborate motifs inspired by nature, folklore, and religious symbols. The process of applying Henna is often seen as a form of self-expression and creativity, with each design reflecting the individual's personality and style. In Pakistan, India, Africa, and the Middle East, Henna is an integral part of weddings and other joyous celebrations. It is customary for brides to have their hands and feet adorned with Henna designs before their wedding day, symbolizing fertility, love, and good fortune. Similarly, guests and family members also participate in this tradition, creating a sense of unity and joy during these festive occasions. Henna is not only limited to weddings but is also used during religious festivals and ceremonies. In India, for example, it is common for women to apply Henna during Diwali, the festival of lights, as a way to honor the Hindu goddess Lakshmi and bring prosperity and good luck into their homes. In the Middle East, Henna is often applied during Eid al-Fitr and Eid al-Adha, marking the end of Ramadan and the celebration of sacrifice, respectively. Beyond its cultural significance, Henna has also gained popularity as a form of body art and temporary tattooing in many parts of the world. Its natural and temporary nature makes it an appealing alternative to permanent tattoos, allowing individuals to experiment with different designs and styles without the commitment. Henna artists have emerged as skilled professionals, showcasing their talent and creativity through their intricate and mesmerizing designs. Despite its ancient origins, the tradition of Henna continues to thrive and evolve in the modern world. It has become a global phenomenon, with Henna artists and enthusiasts from various cultures and backgrounds coming together to celebrate and appreciate this beautiful art form. Whether it is used for cultural practices, personal expression, or simply as a form of adornment, Henna remains a timeless tradition that connects people across borders and generations.


Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Rite of Passage in the Modern World

Newer,more commercial rite of passage has been developed by the modern western societies,such as the prom to mark teenagers coming of age.The prom is a formal dance held at the end of the final academic year in high school.The boys usually wear a dinner jackets and a bow tie and the girls wear formal gowns or dresses and carry a corsage of flowers.The prom originated in the USA and Canada but recently has become increasingly popular in the UK and Australia as well.

Thursday, April 30, 2009

Marriage Customs-TURKEY

In Turkey the guests pin money-cash,checks(cheques)and sometimes gold-on bride's dress and the groom's suit.This money is used by the bride and the groom to start their new life together.It's used to buy things for their new home and anything else they might need for their future life together.

Friday, April 24, 2009